Alternative rules needed
during the lockdown we have been playing Catan boardgame a lot with our kids (in total 4 players). We have continuously encountered an issue in the game. Basically if you get lucky or unlucky in the beginning of the game your advantage or disadvantage grows more or less exponentially. However impact of luck decreases over the games duration. This makes a comeback for the loosing player much more difficult and we mostly end up in a duell between the two strongest players with the other two just watching. And this process starts very early in the game.
Now we noticed that if you play the 6 player edition with 4 players, the impact is less strong but the game gets significantly more boring because the lack of conflicts. We also noticed that Seafarers is a bit more resilient, but Cities & Knights is a bit worse.
We now changed the rules of the robber and declared that he cannot steal the first 3 rounds. Instead the player rolling a 7 gets the resource of the land he places him. Reason for the change was that the players whose turn it was last ended up being robbed very often, starting with a serious drawback.
I was also thinking that for Cities & Knights the Barbarians could raid the city as intended plus one city of the "richest" player. However that is determined.
Did any of you encounter the same problem? Also I would like to know if you give your kids a startes advantage. I am thinking about it because our kids are a bit reluctant to accept consultance for placing their starting settlements. Again with above stated problem it makes them loose more games than needed.
So thanks for any advice you have. by the way our boys are 8 and 11.